YOU SAID:
kind and not arrogant
INTO JAPANESE
親切でand慢ではない
BACK INTO ENGLISH
Kind and not boastful
INTO JAPANESE
親切で自慢しない
BACK INTO ENGLISH
Kind and not proud
INTO JAPANESE
親切で誇りに思っていない
BACK INTO ENGLISH
Kind and not proud
That didn't even make that much sense in English.