YOU SAID:
I'm going out to eat with the kids
INTO JAPANESE
私は子供たちと一緒に食事に行くつもりです
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I'm going to go to eat with the children.
INTO JAPANESE
私は子供たちと一緒に食べに行くつもりです。
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I'm going to go eat with my children.
INTO JAPANESE
私は子供たちと一緒に食べに行くつもりです。
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