YOU SAID:
I hate to love her and I hate him to love her
INTO JAPANESE
私は彼女を愛するのが嫌いで、彼が彼女を愛するのも嫌いです
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I hate loving her and I hate him loving her
INTO JAPANESE
私は彼女を愛するのが嫌いで、彼が彼女を愛するのも嫌いです
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I hate loving her and I hate him loving her
That didn't even make that much sense in English.