YOU SAID:
i ate lunch with my mom and then ate her.
INTO JAPANESE
私は母と一緒に昼食を食べ、それから彼女を食べました。
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I had lunch with my mother and then ate her.
INTO JAPANESE
私は母と一緒に昼食をとり、それから彼女を食べました。
BACK INTO ENGLISH
I had lunch with my mother and then ate her.
That didn't even make that much sense in English.