YOU SAID:
Help me to snurch my mind to it was that you were not going back and forth
INTO JAPANESE
あなたは行ったり来たりしていないということだった
BACK INTO ENGLISH
Was that you weren't coming and going
INTO JAPANESE
あなたが行ったり来たりしていなかったということですか
BACK INTO ENGLISH
did you mean you weren't coming and going
INTO JAPANESE
行ったり来たりしていないということですか
BACK INTO ENGLISH
do you mean it's not coming and going
INTO JAPANESE
行ったり来たりではないということですか
BACK INTO ENGLISH
do you mean it's not going back and forth
INTO JAPANESE
行ったり来たりしていないということですか
BACK INTO ENGLISH
do you mean it's not coming and going
INTO JAPANESE
行ったり来たりではないということですか
BACK INTO ENGLISH
do you mean it's not going back and forth
it is unlikely that this phrase will ever reach equilibrium