YOU SAID:

gender is something to be had with others, not chosen

INTO JAPANESE

性別は何か他の人といた、選ばれなかった

BACK INTO ENGLISH

Sex is something other people and was elected

INTO JAPANESE

セックスは何か他の人と選ばれました。

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Sex is something other people voted.

INTO JAPANESE

セックスは、他の人が投票したものです。

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Sex is a vote for someone else.

INTO JAPANESE

セックスは、他の誰かのための投票です。

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Sex is a vote for someone else.