YOU SAID:

Finger her using a finger but don't give her the finger

INTO JAPANESE

指を使って彼女を指で触れますが、彼女に指を渡さないでください

BACK INTO ENGLISH

Use your finger to finger her, but don't give her your finger

INTO JAPANESE

指を使って彼女に指を触れさせますが、彼女に指を渡さないでください

BACK INTO ENGLISH

Use your finger to let her finger you, but don't give her your finger

INTO JAPANESE

あなたの指を使って彼女に指を触れさせますが、彼女にあなたの指を渡さないでください

BACK INTO ENGLISH

Use your finger to let her finger you, but don't give her your finger