YOU SAID:

before you met me i was alright but things were kinda heavy

INTO JAPANESE

あなたが私に会う前に私は大丈夫だったが、物事はちょっと重い

BACK INTO ENGLISH

I was fine before you met me, but things are a bit heavy

INTO JAPANESE

あなたが私に会う前に私は元気でしたが、物事は少し重いです

BACK INTO ENGLISH

I was fine before you met me, but things are a bit heavy